THE HOUSE RULES • UPDATED OCTOBER 2, 2026

Talk freely.
Own your invitation.

You can be blunt. You can swear. You can vent. A group invitation isn’t permission to expose somebody’s private life.

Launch status

This launch uses a server-side birthday check and an adult declaration for submissions. This is self-declared age, not identity verification. Group invites open on their original platforms; the site does not read your conversations.

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Adults submit. Adults join.

Submitters must be 18 or older. Account signup validates a declared date of birth; publishing requires that birthday check and your explicit adult declaration. The check does not verify your real-world identity. Keep minors and their information out of listings.

02

Share the invite. Keep the receipts private.

List groups you’re authorized to share. No silent imports, scraped conversations, private screenshots, phone numbers, addresses, or identity documents. The directory stores the description and invitation you choose to publish, not chat history.

03

Swearing is fine. Abuse can be reported.

There’s no profanity filter. Threats, doxxing, exploitation, unlawful content, and exposure of private information can be reported and removed. This directory is for communities and conversations, not coordinating attacks on a person.

04

Your accounts stay yours.

The directory does not require a messaging-account connection. You share a group invitation, and visitors join on the original platform. Invite links may reveal the group’s destination; the destination platform controls membership and its own privacy rules.

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What this site keeps.

Account email, public handle, password hash, session records, your adult declaration, and submitted directory metadata. We don’t retain exact birthdays or ID images. Session cookies are required for sign-in; no advertising tracker is installed. Public listings are readable by visitors and search engines.

Remove your own listing from your account. Listing removal hides it from the directory; it does not delete the destination group. Request account/data removal using the form below.

SOMETHING SHOULD NOT BE HERE?

Flag it.

Report a listing or request removal. Reports are stored privately for the site operator. Don’t include sensitive documents or someone else’s private details.